God's purpose comes first before life partner.

In Genesis 2:15 the Lord God took the man (adam) and put him in the Garden of Eden 'to work it and take care of it'
Then in verse 18, the Lord God said, it's not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.
If you combine these verses, you'd discover that

1* God created the man
2* God gave the man some work to do
3* God created a helpmate for the man to help him fulfil his work.
Lets break it down!
You must discover your purpose in life before you find a life partner (helpmate) - the right person who will help you fulfil your purpose.
Yes, purpose comes first before life partner.
Purpose determine the course of your Life.
It determine the kind of friends you should keep and the kind of w/man you should marry.
For instance: If your purpose/vision is to become a politician, you would stay away from those who speak ill of politcs and move closer to those who are into politcs. You see, Your purpose has selected your friends for you. But If purpose isnt in place, you will row with everybody - good and bad.
In the same manner, If purpose isnt in place, You'll row with everybody and endup with a wrong partner.
But If you discover your Purpose, you will begin to identify your true friends and move away from destiny killers.
Purpose comes first before Life partner, because your Life partner is a help mate who will help you fulfill your purpose.
If you havent discovered your purpose and you're looking for a life partner, it's just like someone who doesnt have a mobile phone but went and bought charger. Lolss!
Such persons frustrate themselves, from one broken relationship to another, etc
Purpose determine the course of one's life and select your friends for you.
Now If you want to hang out and catch some fun on a sunday-night, you can hang out with anybody, but if you want to go to war, you will not just go with anybody, rather you will look for someone that has the ability and capacity to assist you in battle.
Without purpose, you can hang out with just anybody or marry anybody. But when Purpose is involved, you will look for someone who has the capacity that would help you fulfil your purpose.
You see, anybody can be beautiful or handsome, but your true life partner is one that has what it take to help you fulfil your purpose.
One unique thing about your true life partner is that he/she is connected to your purpose, and he/she has what it take to fulfill it. Other people dont have it.
Discover Your Purpose and other things would fall in place.
Discover why God created you, and why He's still keeping you.
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